Self healing
And
why I can’t Always heal myself
In the world of healing, we've often been told that we possess the innate ability to heal ourselves. And if we try hard enough we should be able to do it on our own.
Louise Hay, in her book "You Can Heal Your Life," popularized this empowering notion. And while I honor that at her time this was a big step towards empowerment I’ve also learned more about our divine source energy and how the soul works.
If you’ve been crazy hard on yourself feeling like a failure on your healing journey I’m here to tell you something different- It DOES NOT have to be all on you to heal your life.
There are some complexities and limitations to self-healing. This happens when we’ve been compromised at the soul level, known as the fracturing of the soul or soul loss from times when we have suffered severe trauma… We need the healers to help us and support us so that we can gain our power back, and set ourselves free.
This is not new.
For thousands of years were in a close community with healers, medicine people, and shamans who could support us when we were unable to heal or support ourselves fully. They have traditionally worked both in the physical remedy realms, and the unseen spiritual dimensions.
We now have so many modern healers and methods, of all kinds that can help us take quantum leaps on our path, including the return of soul retrieval.
Unpacking the Notion of Self Healing
The concept of self-healing assumes that we can effectively address our wounds and traumas on our own. But what happens when our divine soul essence is stuck in the relentless cycles of a trauma matrix?
In Shamanisum we understand that the very part of us that needs the healing to which we have dedicated all the inner work is not present. When we experience profound wounding in our current or past lives our soul can fracture into pieces outside of reach and influence.
I am saying this not to scare you, or to say you are broken, but because I have seen this over and over again in my work, people blaming themselves for the lack of healing that the ideal of self-healing promotes and promises.
Our personal power can get lost, trapped, or left behind, and these exact fragments when found, reclaimed, and reintegrated create the setting for wholeness and healing to arise.
Why do I feel like nothing is working to heal me?
It's easy to internalize the belief that "everything you need is within you" or that "you are your own best healer." While these sentiments can be empowering, and sometimes true, they can also become burdensome expectations that leave us feeling like we’re doing it all wrong, or need to work harder, or worse that we are unfixable. This is never true.
It breaks my heart to see the high expectations people are placing on themselves and the self-judgment that follows when they aren’t able to return to a sense of wholeness on their own.
I remember a time when I was searching for the answers to what felt like missing pieces and lack of empowerment in my life…I had so much self-awareness of how trauma patterns would cycle and how other lives most likely influenced this one. But all the awareness in the world wasn’t helping me change my situation.
So many times I blew up my life, hurt others, and ultimately hurt myself.
Once I had these soul pieces returned to me I leaped forward on my healing journey. I felt empowered, and a deep peace, and I knew healing was inevitable. I’m living proof and I have countless clients who have experienced this as well.
SOUL HEALING - HEALING THE SOUL
As a shamanic healer, I have been trained, initiated, and built relationships with healing allies so that we can search, find, and rescue these soul pieces of yours.
I know the right questions to ask, what to look for, and how to keep us spiritually safe and protected. My spirits and I will go searching for your divinity. I might have to unlock the right doors or know where in the quantum universe to travel. In cases where soul pieces have been stolen, I need my allies to secretly retrieve your power so that no one will be the wiser or come looking for it again. Other times we must go to battle and stand up for our rights to reunite you with your divinity.
This process brings you back into the state of your divine brilliance that then empowers your innate ability to heal the self!
You're A KEY COMPONANTE OF YOUR HEALING!
Of course, You are essential. You’ll continue to be an integral and interactive player on your healing journey. With the soul intact the actions you take will have a greater and more effective result because the part of you that needed the healing is now present to receive it. You’ll feel more empowered.
If you find yourself discouraged because your efforts haven't yielded the expected results, your situation may be more complex than you can ascertain on your own. You may need someone to undo the chains, so to speak.
All the effort, counseling, workshops, and spiritual practices you have participated in are still with you - almost like when we receive our soul pieces back the construction of the landing pad is formed. All that you have done can finally ‘land’ and start making the difference, the impact, that you had hoped for in the first place.
Your perseverance and courage in facing your pain and seeking healing are commendable.
Remember, healing isn't more valuable or good because you fought through it on your own; it's okay to find the right support and community to help you reclaim all parts and finally come home to yourself.
In moments when it feels like you're stuck in circles or that your efforts are in vain, grant yourself the grace to pause and get support.
If you resonate with these words and find yourself needing some backup in your healing journey, reach out.
I would love to connect with you and find the way upward and onward, off the healing path and on with creating a life you love.
Whatever happens, please be kind to yourself.
You are doing the best you can and you are not alone on this journey.
